Aha!
Is this in reference to…
=P

haha, well yea, it was just another instance of this topic coming up…

I guess this means we have to add”socially uncouth” to the growing list.

this happened to me b4 as well but now most of my frenz hang out alot together n became very close. mayb most r very outgoing, like cindy ;P

n as i org some gd parties, frenz start to respect me on whoever i org. many r open events as well so we cant avoid having strange ppl around.

just for some certain events, certain gp banned another gp of boarding. anyways, when it comes to networking, somehow’s complicated. human r complicated animals.

n even for me, i cant get along with all sorta human creature in the world. ppl r so diverse, def not all can get along with everyone!!!

yea Lammy,

so for some parties u purposely dont invite some groups when you know other groups of friends are giong? yea, it is complex….there are so many personalities, we as outgoing and social people have to learn how to balance it…

people, are…yes. interesting,

Billybob,
i know i’m not perfect, when have i ever said so? haha, i am a human being and i have flaws! =)

Oooops! Sorry man. It was all cool for me so I wonder what wasn’t too cool on the other end.

Hmmm – I guess I’m more in tune to those softer issues and mostly manage to avoid creating those awkward social situations. I think their are ways to manage that – for me it always comes down to my ability to “feel out” people and their tolerances. Some people just can’t deal with certain types of people and smooshing them together in an unmoderated setting won’t pan out well. If you want to push somebody’s toleration envelope you have to do it in a more tactful manner – unless your a fan of conflict, outbursts, and collateral damage.

Find a patsy! Maybe a Canadian would work as a target ;-p

hey Mike Mo,

no, nothing on the other side, I am just over-analyzing maybe, but i do need to consider more. you know you could have come by last night with the family and friends at my apartment too you know! i did invite but you didnt seem interested, maybe not your crowd?

Dave,
you know me and being sensitive…hah, i just smash everything together and hope it works…..need someone else to finess it….

canadians…AHAH

Nah, not about not being interested and not abt not being my crowd. (Am a cowboy bro! Dump me anywhere and Ill mix up pretty well.) Probably was just all set on doing something else as originally requested and planned.

But hey, its not bad to mix up people BUT I’d have to say that it will only go well at the right circumstances and with the right timing. Having said that, the person missing on that picture above is YOU — who would then have the role of making sure it is the right circumstance and the right time.

yea Mike,
well, I always try to balance the situation…..and being in Philippines pretty much on my own, certain misunderstandings happen. Like last night, Marie’s brothers and cousins feel they have to watch over me as I’m alone here, and think i’m sitting at home bored and alone. So they came by to cheer me up.

But I always like to mix people up and see what happens…..normally it works.

seems like i have less control when i’m not in a familiar place. and Manila seems so fragmented geographically, and with transportation, etc. not easy to coordinate

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Its cool man. As I’ve said, staying would be a way of showing them how you’ve appreciated all their efforts all this time.

yea, ill be back in Manila soon bro! and we’ll hit up the fort!

then boracay!

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