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		<title>By: Do Tech CEOs Need To Be %@#$@^&#38; to Succeed?</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-21265</link>
		<dc:creator>Do Tech CEOs Need To Be %@#$@^&#38; to Succeed?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2011 15:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] another stating that &#8220;its not personal, its business&#8220;, which is another reason against mixing friends and business, BUT you also want to do business with people you trust and have relationships with, which normally [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] another stating that &#8220;its not personal, its business&#8220;, which is another reason against mixing friends and business, BUT you also want to do business with people you trust and have relationships with, which normally [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Who To Trust While I&#8217;m Outside China</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-9151</link>
		<dc:creator>Who To Trust While I&#8217;m Outside China</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 15:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I think that is kind of crazy&#8230;&#8230;..for so many reasons.  I have talked about the risks mixing friends and business &#8211; I can only imagine the tensions that must be caused mixing a girlfriend / potential wife [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I think that is kind of crazy&#8230;&#8230;..for so many reasons.  I have talked about the risks mixing friends and business &#8211; I can only imagine the tensions that must be caused mixing a girlfriend / potential wife [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Norn</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-431</link>
		<dc:creator>Norn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 00:59:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Found this article very interesting...
I, like yourself, went to a Catholic HS (all girls) and I too was very shy. Would I do it again - probably not - didn&#039;t do alot for my social life. Here are my comments:

a) Dating in the workplace - Met my 2nd husband at work. Did not work in the same dept so it was OK. Tried to keep it hush-hush but, that kind of gossip just spread like wildfire. 
b)Hiring Friends. Actually, I was the hired friend. There was some loyalty there but, then my friend conducted/presented herself in compromising ways (she had an affair with a co-worker while married with 4 kids). Did not feel too comfortable and questioned her leadership skills - so I became an ex-friend. 
c) Customers that are friends. I guess if both parties know where the line is, both sides of the relationship can flourish. It&#039;s when one or both parties start assuming that they can step over the boundary that&#039;s where the problems start. 
d) Business partners that are friends. You need to have trust in each other in order to become business partners. Like a marriage - it&#039;s a joint venture where there should be respect for each other. There is a common goal that is understood between bother parties. When mistrust is present, usually means to end the partnership. 

Where you really shy back then - you would never know that now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Found this article very interesting&#8230;<br />
I, like yourself, went to a Catholic HS (all girls) and I too was very shy. Would I do it again &#8211; probably not &#8211; didn&#8217;t do alot for my social life. Here are my comments:</p>
<p>a) Dating in the workplace &#8211; Met my 2nd husband at work. Did not work in the same dept so it was OK. Tried to keep it hush-hush but, that kind of gossip just spread like wildfire.<br />
b)Hiring Friends. Actually, I was the hired friend. There was some loyalty there but, then my friend conducted/presented herself in compromising ways (she had an affair with a co-worker while married with 4 kids). Did not feel too comfortable and questioned her leadership skills &#8211; so I became an ex-friend.<br />
c) Customers that are friends. I guess if both parties know where the line is, both sides of the relationship can flourish. It&#8217;s when one or both parties start assuming that they can step over the boundary that&#8217;s where the problems start.<br />
d) Business partners that are friends. You need to have trust in each other in order to become business partners. Like a marriage &#8211; it&#8217;s a joint venture where there should be respect for each other. There is a common goal that is understood between bother parties. When mistrust is present, usually means to end the partnership. </p>
<p>Where you really shy back then &#8211; you would never know that now!</p>
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		<title>By: Echo Zhang</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-420</link>
		<dc:creator>Echo Zhang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 16:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Mike, not get fired but sort of.it is one of them take the initiative to resign. which one they decide by themself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mike, not get fired but sort of.it is one of them take the initiative to resign. which one they decide by themself.</p>
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		<title>By: mike</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-417</link>
		<dc:creator>mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@kent - seems like Echo kind of answers your questions, some companies forbid it.

@echo - thanks again for your thoughtful response.....so if a company were to find out people were dating, they would be fired from company, or what?

as for business and friends, this is still not clear...I mean - customers become friends and friends become customers.  So during &quot;customer relations&quot;, to keep the business relationship good, is that considered friends or business.  

Anyway, thats is what budgets are for...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@kent &#8211; seems like Echo kind of answers your questions, some companies forbid it.</p>
<p>@echo &#8211; thanks again for your thoughtful response&#8230;..so if a company were to find out people were dating, they would be fired from company, or what?</p>
<p>as for business and friends, this is still not clear&#8230;I mean &#8211; customers become friends and friends become customers.  So during &#8220;customer relations&#8221;, to keep the business relationship good, is that considered friends or business.  </p>
<p>Anyway, thats is what budgets are for&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Echo Zhang</title>
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		<dc:creator>Echo Zhang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 09:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that is no way.whatever friends or business partners or employees or customers etc... everyone should clear know the game rule and business is business,private is private。that maybe easy to handle。 But dateing at workplace，oh i do not think it is good。i always think that give an impact to our work and life.it is easy to bring personal emotion to work and life,especially when we are in trouble or work is not going smoothly that it hurt our feeling and job. i think that&#039;s why so many boss disallow the employees dateing in the office in China,one of them should leave whatever who you are and what position... that&#039;s fair. The second company that i worked do like this.  &quot;You then wonder, ok, is this beer work, or are we out on the town?  Who pays for dinner?  How much should I bill.&quot; this is not question, if for business,of course you pay,if for private,you pay for them this time,they will pay for you back next time...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that is no way.whatever friends or business partners or employees or customers etc&#8230; everyone should clear know the game rule and business is business,private is private。that maybe easy to handle。 But dateing at workplace，oh i do not think it is good。i always think that give an impact to our work and life.it is easy to bring personal emotion to work and life,especially when we are in trouble or work is not going smoothly that it hurt our feeling and job. i think that&#8217;s why so many boss disallow the employees dateing in the office in China,one of them should leave whatever who you are and what position&#8230; that&#8217;s fair. The second company that i worked do like this.  &#8220;You then wonder, ok, is this beer work, or are we out on the town?  Who pays for dinner?  How much should I bill.&#8221; this is not question, if for business,of course you pay,if for private,you pay for them this time,they will pay for you back next time&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: dswei</title>
		<link>http://blog.michaelmichelini.com/2009/07/mixing-friends-and-business.html/comment-page-1#comment-403</link>
		<dc:creator>dswei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there some way to handle such phenomena?    coordinate or control</description>
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		<title>By: Mixing Friends and Business</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mixing Friends and Business</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 22:55:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: News Mixing Friends and Business &#124; Web 2.0 Designer</title>
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		<dc:creator>News Mixing Friends and Business &#124; Web 2.0 Designer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 17:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
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